Picture older than me, but how I see my dad when I think of him. x |
This is so hard for me to...comprehend, I guess that's the word I need. It's hard to know my dad can be in need of help in the manner that he needs. My dad was a soldier in the Vietnam War, a drill instructor at one point, and a hardass father. I could tell he cared, but he gave us all tough love on many situations. I grew up thinking, like many kids might, that my dad just enjoyed being mean. I wasn't allowed to roam like my brothers could. I got reprimanded for things I still think were too little to matter at times. I rebelled during high school and made some very stupid mistakes for a few years after. I got a little wild when I got that first dose of freedom after turning 18.
I did start turning things around and trying to be a better daughter when I realized that if I needed them, my parents would help even if we hadn't been talking for a while. I hope that, at that point I started trying again, my parents noticed. I'd hate to think that my mom didn't know I cared when she passed away. Even though my dad doesn't always remember now, I hope that he will know that his kids love him. For all his meanness had a method and reason.
This post is probably as much jumbled together madness as my mind, but it's what was on my mind. I am hoping that my dad doesn't have to suffer and become a prisoner of the system much more before he is at peace.
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